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Bachelor in Bangkok: Khun Lee on how not and why not to overpay Thai women

You can go broke really fast by paying too much for dating Thai women

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Bachelor in Bangkok: Khun Lee on jealousy and relationships

I just had 2 friends from England visit Bangkok and there were some magical moments during their stay that will certainly become local legend.  One particular evening stands out in my mind as it is a perfect illustration of how different one’s priorities become after living in Paradise as long as I have. There is […]

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Bachelor in Bangkok: Khun Lee on errant condoms, guiltless sexual faux pas, and Valentine’s Day

Used condom accidentally suspended from a ceiling fan sends Khun Lee’s date fleeing in terror

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Bachelor in Bangkok: Khun Lee on comparisons between Thailand and the U.S.

Sitting in one of my favorite bars with a mate last night, we were discussing our various methods of charming the opposite sex and satisfying our disgusting animal urges.  My mate happened to mention that when making love to a woman “doggy” style he often attempts to enter another pleasure zone in that general region, […]

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Bachelor in Bangkok: Khun Lee on the class structure of Thai women

One mistake many foreigners make when dealing with the gals in Thailand is not recognizing what class the lass comes from.  Many western countries do not have a definite class structure so it is understandable that guys often make this simple but fatal error. Thailand, as most of you know already, has a very specific class […]

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Bachelor in Bangkok: Khun Lee on the life story of a 21 year old Thai bar girl

She is only 21 years old but already has 4 ½ years of working as an “entertainment provider” under her belt.  Now fluent in both English and Thai while studying Mandarin Chinese, this confident young lady and I sat down this week for a cup of coffee and she told the entire story of her […]

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Bachelor in Bangkok: Khun Lee on Western men who’ve lost perspective on Thai women

One of the most amusing aspects of living in Paradise is watching the bizarre antics of the western guys here in regard to their relationships with the ladies.  At any given period of time one can see a 55 year old man being reduced to a sniveling, emotionally distraught 5 year old boy by a […]

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Bachelor in Bangkok: Khun Lee on short-times, long-times, and freebies

To pay or not to pay, that is the question.  No, I am not misquoting Shakespeare but referring to the dilemma of being a womanizer in Bangkok.  Do you look for a regular girlfriend, or just pay for short term relationships?  Worse yet, do you pay a lady for short term love and then pay […]

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Bachelor in Bangkok: Khun Lee on American wives and sponsoring Thai women

Recently I have started to think that perhaps I need to work on my people skills.  Now, I have to say that I have never been the most diplomatic guy, and one of the things that I love about living in Thailand is the total lack of political correctness that is so pervasive in the […]

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Bachelor in Bangkok: Khun Lee on foxy nurses in Bangkok hospitals

I had to go to a hospital in Bangkok this week to get some tests done for a nasty allergy problem that just doesn’t seem to want to go away.  It is absolutely incredible how all the nurses and female staff in Bangkok hospitals look like models with perfect skin, slim bodies and angelic faces.  […]

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