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Day and Resort/Hotel Spas in Vietnam

Written By: herbrunbridge - Jun• 05•10

Vietnam is quickly becoming a spa destination, particularly in the Resort/Hotel variety, with good choices in Hue, Nha Trang, and SaigonDay spas are beginning to appear, but choices today are slim, relative to the proliferation of day spas in Malaysia, Thailand, and Singapore.  There are plenty of “mom&pop” massage venues in Saigon and Hanoi, but western-style day spas are not yet prolific.   

Day spas commonly offer treatments such as aromatherapy, hydrotherapy, therapeutic body massage, body scrub, body wrap, iridology, and overall wellness programs, on a walk-in basis. 

Day Spas in Saigon 

1) SpaTropic
187b Hai Ba Trung, District 3, Saigon, Vietnam
+ 848 822-8895
Open 9:30am – 8:00pm
www.spatropic.com/en/contact.html 

Resort/Hotel spas offer professional spa services within a hotel or resort environment.  Here, you’ll typically be offered spa cuisine choices and a number of services and packages, from daily to multi-day regimens. 

Resort/hotel spas in Hue 

Comfort Zone Spa
La Résidence Hôtel & Spa
5 Le Loi Street – Hue, Vietnam
+ 84 054 837 475
www.la-residence-hue.com 

Resort/hotel spas in Nha Trang 

Qi Sunrise Salon and Spa
Sunrise Beach Resort
12-14 Tran Phu Street, Nha Trang, Vietnam
+84-58-820999
http://www.sunrisenhatrang.com.vn/en

Six Senses Spa
Evason Ana Mandara Resort
Beachside Tran Phu Blvd, Nha Trang,  Vietnam
+84 58 522 222
www.sixsenses.com/evason%2Danamandara 

Resort/hotel spas in Saigon

 Xuan Spa
Park Hyatt Saigon 2 Lam Son Square, District 1, Saigon
+84 8 824 1234
http://saigon.park.hyatt.com

 Note: for all medical procedures, remember to consult your own doctor.  We do not recommend participating in any medical procedure without first discussing the situation with a professional.  The data on this page is for informational purposes only, and does not constitute a recommendation.

Avoid high price tour rip-offs in Vietnam

Written By: herbrunbridge - Jun• 05•10

HaLong Bay, Vietnam

In Vietnam, the middleman is king, which means that the pricing on most tour packages varies on how much the vendor thinks you can pay.

For example, we were quoted $87 for a one-day tour to the Mekong delta, from our upscale hotel on Dong Khoi Street.  The same tour cost $7 (not a mis-print!) when we walked ten minutes down to the backpacker area on Pham Ngu Lao Street in Saigon.  Naturally, the tours go in separate buses and boats, so travelers can’t compare prices.  This experience was replicated on a trip to Halong Bay from Hanoi, so caveat emptor!  If you insist on buying tour packages from upscale hotels, be prepared to pay an often unnecessary premium.

WoWasis’ Singapore Bookshelf

Written By: herbrunbridge - Jun• 05•10

Here at WoWasis, we’ve found some good reads about Singapore , including a number of very good fiction and non-fiction books. Here are some of our favorites:

Fiction 

It takes a brave writer to create a bland protagonist, especially in a crime novel, where, presumably, the reader aspires to the lofty wit, intelligence, good looks, charm, and sexual skills of the hero(ine).  So  let’s start off by saying Jake Needham has taken a pretty serious plunge into this little-traveled literary abyss of  in giving us Inspector Tay of the Singapore Police in The Ambassador’s Wife (2006, ISBN 974-93750-8-4), a man whose prime pleasures are drinking strong coffee, reading a book or two, and reflecting on the lack of excitement in his life.  Funny thing is, this construct actually works well, and represents, we’d guess, a metaphor of the well-scrubbed city-state of Singapore itself.  Tay is a man of comfortable routines, and the ghastly murder of a high-profile Western woman puts him at odds with an interesting collection of Occidental high-priests working for the underbelly of the covert world, all of whom – at least initially – consider him to be their intellectual inferior.  The fact that Needham is able to keep the reader riveted through the 349 pages of this formidable story is a tribute to Needham’s growing mastery of the craft.  For our money, the unpredictable ending, combining with the bittersweet subplot of unsatisfied love interests, prompts us to ask ourselves if Inspector Tay deserves another book.  Frankly, it does.  Tay is an unusual protagonist, equally uncomfortable in Singapore and Bangkok, disestablished, but certainly not overmatched by the convoluted series of players in Bangkok’s evolving world of police, military, international politics, and the demimonde.  Needham has written a terrific book, and one which begs a sequel.

For many, the prototypical Singaporean fiction novel is Paul Theroux’s Saint Jack (1973, ISBN-10: 0140041575). Jack Flowers makes a living by provisioning, whether it be food, booze, or women, and his clients include shipping companies, individual travelers, and eventually the US Army. Flowers is bright, but not brilliant, running afoul of the local Tong, and losing his business and gaining a bit of additional real estate on his skin as a result. Theroux’s insight into Flowers’ thought process is one of the most compelling elements of this book, written in the first person, in the setting of a Singapore that no longer exists. Ben Slater has written a wonderful book on the making of the film based on Saint Jack (see below).

AsiaPromoBannerFor those wishing to get a keep into the world of Singapore’s brothels, gambling joints, and protection rackets, Antonio Chan’s Lusts from the Underworld (1991, ISBN 981-00-2866-0) is a must-read.  In this well-researched novel, with the exception of one or two good-hearted gals, there only anti-heroes doing their utmost to cheat, backstab, and kill friends and foes alike.   It’s a refreshing read for those that wish Singapore were a bit more gritty.  In its underbelly, it apparently is.

Non-Fiction

If you’ve seen Peter Bogdanovich’s film Saint Jack, you’ve seen a wild side of Singapore that no longer exists.  Based on Paul Theroux’s novel, and starring Ben Gazzara, the film has documentary value as well, showing streets, buildings, and exotic people no longer there to be seen.  Ben Slater’s Kinda Hot: the Making of Saint Jack in Singapore (1006, ISBN 978-981-261-069-0) is a wonderful investigation into the making of the film, which was ultimately banned in Singapore.  Here, we meet the principals, revel in the peccadilloes, and get a great behind-the-scenes view of the events surrounding the making of the film, much of which was derived from interviews that virtually everyone involved seemed delighted to provide.  What soon becomes apparent was that a great many of the people involved were actually living the life portrayed in the film, and the memories of those times have remained some of their best. Slater also has an excellent blog that he continues to update on all things Saint Jack. The best way to order this book is directly through him at his email address, gonetopersia@gmail.com   (Amazon’s waay too expensive).

Today’s Singapore is a clean, relatively staid city-state that exudes a button-down philosophy that seems decidedly “non Southeast Asian” in character.  How it got that way, and whether it’s ultimately gone too far is the stuff of GC Soh’s Slices of Singapore (2003, ISBN  981-04-9927-2).  Here, the author does his best to explain the changes made under the Lee Kwan Yew regime, and puts Singapore’s emphasis on wealth, academic examinations, real estate, and public image under the microscope.  He also, provides interesting insight into social customs, such as the Singaporean wedding, and marriage law.  His analysis of the reasons behind Singapore’s lack of entrepreneurial spirit will be of interest to anyone considering starting a business in Singapore.

Bang Fai rocket festival in Yasothon, Thailand

Written By: herbrunbridge - Jun• 05•10

Happy, muddy revelers often shoot pistols and other explosives into the air to accompany bang fai rockets

Like us here at WoWasis, if your idea of fun is a weekend of Isaan parades, music, drinking, and rocket launching, the Bun Bungfai Rocket Festival, held each year in Yasothon, is for you.   Generally held on one of the first two weekends in May, the festival features dozens of teams launching thousands of home-crafted rockets.  The traveler can casually walk among the launchings, as there are no police to keep one away from close proximity.  Rockets range from the small Bangfai hoi type, which is powered by 12 kg of gunpowder, to the ultra-powerful Bangfai sene, which packs a payload of 120 kg.   Teams vie for various awards, and scads of children race around the environs with the task of putting out the small brush fires that are the result of rocket detritus crashing back down to earth.  The affair is held at a city park that is little more than a series of ponds and mudholes.  There is enough dry land for spectators and food and beer stalls, and by mid-day, a good percentage of the crowd is drunk, happy, and throwing everyone within sight into mudpits (don’t wear your good clothes).

Rocket launching day, held on a Sunday in the Isaan city of Yasothon, is actually the last day of a three day festival.  Even though the biggest occurs in Yasothon, similar events are held all over Isaan and Laos.  Ostensibly, the rockets are sent to appease the rain gods, but there is also a sexual, regenerative Spring-ritual element to the festival, and much sexual play-acting occurs in open tents, where participants drink, and are ultimately engaged in the act of throwing unmuddied friends in the mud.

On BangFai weekend, the Saturday preceding the Sunday rocket launching is given to a magnificent Isaan parade, where floats, dancers, musicians, and beauty queens parade by a dozen or so stages blasting morlam music from huge speakers.  Many of the beautiful women in the parade are ladyboys, as are a good portion of the dancers on stage.  Some of the most fascinating participants of the parade are the musicians, who power their guitars, phins (an Isaan stringed instrument), and keyboards on car batteries, loaded onto a cart that also houses speakers, and occasionally the keyboard itself.

ThailandPromoBannerGetting to Yasothon

Yasothon is 531 kilometers northeast of Bangkok.  You can rent a car (if you do, don’t miss Baan Sri Than, a handcraft village famous for its silk and cotton products, 20 km away on Route 202).  Aircon night buses leave from Bangkok’s Mo Chit station at approximately 9pm, and arrive in Yasothon at roughly 6 am the following day.

Staying in Yasothon

Hotels are reasonably priced (generally, under $25), but vary in age and amenities. The JD Emerald, located a kilometer or so from the main stage area, is the upscale hotel in town, tel (045) 724-848.  More centrally located, and across the street from the bus station, is the Yssothon Royal Orchid, (045) 721-000.  For more information on lodging, call the regional Tourism Authority of Thailand (TAT) office at (045) 243-770, or (045) 250-714.  They will provide hotel info, and phone numbers.

Jumbo Queen beauty contest in Nakhon Pathom, Thailand

Written By: herbrunbridge - Jun• 05•10

Weight competition at Thailand's incredible Jumbo Queen contest

If the size of a beauty contest can be measured by the accumulated weight of all contestants, Thailand’s Jumbo Queen Contest is undoubtedly the world’s largest.  Occurring each year on Thailand’s May 1 labor Day holiday, the contest matches the talent, beauty, and charm of some of the largest women in Thailand.  To be eligible to enter, each contestant must weigh at least 80 kilos (177lbs). It is held in the city of  Nakhon Pathom, just outside of Bangkok. 

From a list of 120 candidates, the contest comes down to twenty finalists, and the winner gets a cash prize, plus the opportunity of helping to raise funds to care for elephants.  You heard that correctly.  The Jumbo Queen pageant is a program that raises funds to protect Thai elephants and preserve their habitat.  If you attend the pageant, you can stay afterward and see demonstrations of elephants at work, because the event is held at the Samphran Elephant Ground and Zoo, near Nakhon Pathom, one hour southwest of Bangkok. 

The event is decidedly Thai, and westerners are cautioned  to check political correctness at the front door.  The contestants revel in their girth, and the co-host for the ceremony itself was a well-respected ladyboy actress and makeup expert.  Elephant calls are broadcast through the PA system as each girl approaches the stage, and everyone enjoys the sanuk.  

On May 1, 2004, Khun Arpapat Boonnarong, a university student weighing in at 95 kilos (210 lbs.) was crowned Thailand’s 8th Jumbo Queen.  Her prize was 50,000 baht ( USD $1,250), and her duties entailed making public appearances as the Thai Elephant Conservation Ambassador for the Elephant Alliance of Thailand. During the ensuing year, 100% of her fees were donated to elephant-related organizations, and preservation and education programs. The title of Miss Jumbo Supermodel, honoring the heaviest contestant, was won that year by Khun Bangor Waiyawong, at 170 kilos (376 lbs.) 

How to get there: Take the bus to Nakhon Pathom, or taxi (taxis at hotels will charge approximately 1500 baht for the round trip, and will wait for you.)  Telephone for Samphran Park, where the contest is held, is: (02) 284-1873.  Although the contest itself is held from 9 am – 12 pm, allow a whole day for the ceremonial events which follow, including the new Queen’s presentation of 6,000 kilos of food to 25 elephants, in which the audience is encourage to participate by feeding the animals.

Day Spas in Cambodia

Written By: herbrunbridge - Jun• 05•10

Day spas commonly offer treatments such as aromatherapy, hydrotherapy, therapeutic body  massage, body scrub, body wrap, iridology, and overall wellness programs, on a walk-in basis.  They are little-by-little becoming more prolific in Phnom Penh.   Spas in Siem Reap tend toward the resort-hotel variety, but we’ll keep you posted as more Day Spas start to appear there.  While there are dozens of walk-in spas in Sihanoukville, the scene there is just beginning to emerge. 

If you are looking for a more intense immersion, be sure to check out   Resort/hotel spas in Cambodia.  

Day Spas in Phnom Penh 

Aziadée
#16AB, Street 282, (next to Goldiana Hotel)
+855 23 996 921

Islands Traditional Khmer Health Massage
329 Sisowath Quai
+855 23 991-273
www.islands-massage.com
GPS Coordinates: N11 degrees, 34.049′  E104 degrees, 55.844′ 

Senses Spa
157 Sisowath Quay (next to Riverhouse Restaurant), Phnom Penh
+855 23 990 244

Spa Bliss
129Street 240, Phnom Penh
+855 23 215 754 

U & ME Spa (2 locations)
#1: Star Royal Hotel Building, 383 Sisowath Quai
+855 16-88-00-88
GPS Coordinates: N11 degrees, 34.019′  E104 degrees, 55.904′

 #2:  229 Sisowath Quai
+855 16-200-718
GPS Coordinates: N11 degrees, 34.255′  E104 degrees, 55.799′

Day Spas in Siem Reap 

Frangipani
+855 012-982-062
This tiny spa is located just north of the Old Market, down a sidestreet opposite the Blue Pumpkin restaurant.  Its good reputation is enhanced by its relatively low (by Siem Reap standards) prices. 

Islands Traditional Khmer Health Massage
+855 012-757-120
www.islands-massage.com

Day Spas in Sihanoukville

Islands Traditional Khmer Health Massage
190 Ekareach Street, across from ANZ Bank
+855 034-399-070
GPS Coordinates: N10 degrees, 37.414′,  E103 degrees, 31.448′
www.islands-massage.com

Resort and hotel Spas in Cambodia

Written By: herbrunbridge - Jun• 05•10

Note: for all medical procedures, remember to consult your own doctor.  We do not recommend participating in any medical procedure without first discussing the situation with a professional.  The data on this page is for informational purposes only, and does not constitute a recommendation.Resort/Hotel spas offer professional spa services within a hotel or resort environment.  Here, you’ll typically be offered spa cuisine choices and a number of services and packages, from daily to multi-day regimens. 

Cambodia’s Resort and Hotel spa business is growing, and while not as extensive as the offerings of neighboring Thailand, they do offer the amenities you’re used to, in a uniquely Khmer setting.  For other great spa experiences, take a look at Day spas in Cambodia. 

Resort/hotel spas in Phnom Penh 

RafflesAmrita Spa
Raffles Hotel Le Royal, Phnom Penh
92 Rukhak Vithei Daun Penh, off Monivong Boulevard
Sangkat Wat Phnom, Phnom Penh+855 23 981 888
http://phnompenh.raffles.com
Offering massage and body therapy, other spa services. 

Resort/hotel spas in Siem Reap 

RafflesAmrita Spa
Raffles Grand Hotel d’Angkor, Siem Reap
1 Vithei Charles de Gaulle
Khum Svay Dang Kum, Siem Reap
+855 63 963 888
http://siemreap.raffles.com
Spa treatments comprise body scrubs, aqua therapy, hydrotherapy, aromatherapy and thalassotherapy, as well as facials, slimming and toning treatments.  Tennis is also available. 

Shinta Mani Spa
Shinta Mani Hotel
Om Khun and 14th Street, Siem Reap
+855 63 761 998
www.shintamani.com
Most day spa services can be found here, for singles and couples 

Spa Indochine
Hotel de la Paix
Sivutha Boulevard, Siem Reap
+ 855 63 966 000
www.hoteldelapaixangkor.com

Visaya Spa
FCC Angkor
Pokambor Rd, Siem Reap
+855 63 760 280
http://visayaspa.fcccambodia.com
Visaya has a reputation of being the swankiest spa in Cambodia, with some of the highest prices to match

WoWasis’ Cambodian Bookshelf

Written By: herbrunbridge - Jun• 05•10

Much of the literature on Cambodia deals with the Khmer Rouge days, somewhat less on the glories of Angkor Wat.  Travelers who haven’t read on either subject prior to entering Cambodia invariably dash to bookstores to catch up on what they’ve seen and heard. 

Here are a few books we here at WoWasis would consider essential reading: 

Fiction 

In Apsara Jet (2001, ISBN 0-9708862-0-9), Nicolas Merriweather weaves the tale of an unemployed Yank pilot who gets sucked into the world of underworld intrigue in Cambodia.  Fans of Bangkok Fiction will recognize elements of the genre in his uneasy romantic and professional relationships. 

Bangkok Fiction author Christopher G. Moore’s detective Calvino follows the trail of a missing farang to Phnom Penh, where he finds himself embroiled in an international shell-game, in Cut Out (1999, ISBN 974-87116-3-3). 

Nathan Mills’ The Third Attempt (2005, ISBN 974-92669-8-6) is an international thriller set primarily in Malaysia, with a bit of action in Phnom Penh.  Here, a powerful family rules police and politics, while their out-of-control son rapes and kills at will.  He kidnaps a diplomat’s daughter, mistaking her for a local girl, which sets in motion a juggernaut of vengeance.  To Western eyes, the plot initially appears unrealistic; to Eastern readers, it’s business as usual. 

Non-fiction Roland Neveu, a photographer who witnessed the fall of Phnom Penh, chronicles the years 1973 to 1999 in a large-format black and white photo essay, Cambodia: Years of Turmoil (2000, ISBN 974-85796-8-9) 

David Chandler has chronicled the ravages of Pol Pot’s Khmer Rouge régime as well as anyone.  His Brother Number One: a Political Biography of Pol Pot (1992, ISBN 974-7551-18-7) provides a very interesting historical and psychological view into the makeup of the man.   In Voices from S-21: Terror and History in Pol Pot’s Secret Prison (2000, ISBN 974-7551-15-2), Chandler takes us into the prison where over 14,000 were murdered, providing data on arrests, interrogations, trials, and executions. 

French ethnologist François Bizot was captured by the Khmer Rouge while on a routine outing, and was one of the very few foreigners who survived.  His chilling The Gate (2000, ISBN 0-099-44919-6), chronicles his capture, imprisonment, and ultimate freedom. 

Bunheang Ung, with writer Martin Stuart-Fox, tells the story from the perspective of a Cambodian who lived through it, an educated man who feigned ignorance in a successful attempt to survive.  An artist, Ung committed atrocities and various other scenes to memory, and later recreated them on paper, dozens of which appear in The Murderous Revolution (1998, ISBN 974-8299-14-7). 

Sam Sotha’s In the Shade of a Quiet Killing Place (2007, ISBN 978-974-88163-4-0) includes his drawings depicting his days as a prisoner in slavery to the Khmer Rouge.  Of particular interest is his family’s transition to life in the U.S., and his eventual occupation as Secretary-General of the Cambodia Mine Action and Victim Assistance Authority. 

In the aftermath of the Khmer Rouge era, Cambodia is going through a transitional stage, tragic, comical, and cathartic.  Gonzo writer Amit Gilboa chronicles these often-strange times, in his careening Off the Rails in Phnom Penh: Into the Dark Heart of Guns, Girls, and Ganja (1998, ISBN 974-8303-34-9). 

That intrepid Yank expat, James Eckardt, ends up living in Phnom Penh for a year as a writer, and chronicles the times wonderfully in The Year of Living Stupidly: Boom, Bust, and Cambodia (2001, ISBN 974-8303-48-9) 

Most visitors to Cambodia become entranced by Khmer sculpture, whether seeing it in situ, or at the National Museum in Phnom Penh.  An indispensable book on the subject is Emma C. Bunker and Douglas Latchford’s Adoration and Glory: the Golden Age of Khmer Art. (2004, ISBN 1-58886-070-1), describing the history and technique, with fine photographic examples of the art form.

Keeping traditions alive: the Disabled Musicians of Cambodia

Written By: herbrunbridge - Jun• 05•10

Traditional Cambodian music nearly died under the Khmer Rouge, but has been revived all over the country by hundreds of people who, after having been disabled by landmines, learned to play music on traditional Cambodian instruments.  Watch a short video of a disabled musician playing the tro, a bowed string instrument.

These musicians are everywhere, from city to countryside, and provide the visitor great opportunities to see and hear the music being played, and to support the musicians playing it, either through donations, or purchase of cassettes of their music.  This is one of the best ways to spread your money around a bit to people whose agrarian livelihood has been severely diminished by landmines, thousands of which have yet to be found.

Bachelor in Bangkok: Khun Lee’s 5 rules for surviving the Bangkok bar scene

Written By: herbrunbridge - Jun• 05•10

Guys like me enjoy the company of Entertainment Providers quite often and enjoy it immensely with very few negative experiences.  However, so many men find themselves losing their hearts, their money, and sometimes even their minds! So given this theme I will list below Khun Lee’s 5 Rules for handling oneself inside this arena. I must say that I NEVER thought I would have to hand out unsolicited advice on how to enjoy beautiful, sexy young Thai women. Seems like one could just go on auto-pilot and have the time of his life. Of course, as is so often the case, the real enemy is the guy you see in the mirror! 

1) Pay As You Go

This is THE GOLDEN RULE!! ALWAYS pay as you go. Never give a lady lump sums of money for any reason. Never fool yourself into thinking that she will like you more if you give her a monthly salary. Never prepay for any service or experience. Some of you may be thinking that this relates back to my first column about how ridiculous it is to “sponsor” a girl. Yes, you are right! With these ladies there is no yesterday and no tomorrow. Only today matters and if you gave her the sun, moon and stars last week she will think you are a bad guy for giving her nothing today. For example, I have a casual friend who was so infatuated with a top dancer from a popular Nana Entertainment Plaza bar that he asked her if she would quit work if he gave her enough money. Her response was that 30,000 baht a month would do it, so he gave her the money and she stopped dancing. Two weeks later he tells me that she rarely wants to see him and that she always seems too busy to meet! He feels like he spent his money for nothing. He did!! I happen to know this gal quite well, so I called her to enquire about her intentions. 

This is what she told me: “Lee, you have to understand the way we think. I spent the 30,000 by the 3rd of the month and yet he still wants to meet me and spend the night with me FOR FREE! Take last night for instance. I got 3 phone calls. One from him, one from a customer who paid me 4,000 baht once, and one from a regular customer who always gives me 2,500 baht. If I go out with customer number one I will get 4,000, customer number two pays 2,500, and your friend will give me NOTHING.”  She is right. My friend thinks giving her the 30,000 per month has paid UPFRONT for the whole month. In her mind, ONLY TODAY matters and until the 28th or 29th of the month (when she will try to reel him back in for another 30k on the 1st)  he has gone from the most desirable customer to the least desirable. I think that’s we call Ironic! Pay as you go relates to all aspects of the experience. Even on a smaller scale, such as paying a bar fine and telling the gal you will come back in an hour. She may be there, and she may not. Depends on whether she gets a better offer.  Don’t pay her anything unless you are walking out the door with her.

 2)  Enjoy The Game

Enjoy yourself! This is Paradise for single men and only losing your perspective can change that. I can pretty much guarantee that the guys who pay up front are NOT enjoying themselves. I love seeing the sly smile on my favorite ladies’ faces when I see them with another customer. I love it when they make provocative facial expressions when the guy’s back is turned. I love it when they tell me all their wild stories. Many guys feel the same way and these guys will always have a great time here. Last week I was in an internet café and an entertainment provider asked me to translate an email for her. She told me it was from her “husband” in England. Ten minutes later she is showing me a photo a guy sent to her in front of a HUGE house in London. I asked if the photo was from her husband in England. She said “that’s my OTHER husband in England.” Well I was cracking up laughing when another farang customer came over to me and he gave me a high five. He said“Man I just love these gals. They are completely SHAMELESS.” Really wish I had come up with that one. 

3)   Check Out Different Places

Don’t make the mistake of always going to the same places. Different places have VERY different atmospheres and the gal’s attitudes vary enormously. Popular places like Rainbow and Long Gun are great fun but never forget that with more customers ladies attitudes often deteriorate. Avoid Japanese bars at all costs. Nothing against the Japanese. Most are gentlemen, I rarely see one arguing over his bill or causing a fight. However, they overpay for service and expect so little in return. Any local guy will tell you that it’s a HUGE risk taking a lady from a primarily Japanese bar such as Rainbow. The ladies get lazy and spoiled. Many don’t even smile! 

4)  Never Forget That You Are The Customer

You are the customer and therefore have 99% of the power. Never forget this. If there is anything not to your liking just finish your drink, and go to another place. My attitude is that if the lady throws out any “qualifications” I am not interested. Such as, “I can’t do…,  I never do …, I don’t have time for …, I have to be back here in an hour” etc. No problem Nice to meet you. See you later. 

5)  Pay As You Go

Yes, this is the same as number one and this is THE GOLDEN RULE. Remember this and everything else will fall into place. 95% of the horror stories I hear are           from guys who broke this rule. Pay as you go. Enjoy the game. Check out lots of different places. Never forget that you are the customer and have the power. Oh, and PAY AS YOU GO!!  

 Next Week: Top 5 Rules For Scoring With Regular (Non-Bar) Gals. Yes, it will be a VERY different list!!!!!!!!!