Dear Pa Farang,

My friend Khun Lek is 27 years old, is still virgin, and very sweet lady. I talk with her today, something happened to her last night. Her man boss asked her to watch pornographic film with him.

I asked Khun Lek, where is his wife? "she sleeped" and than I asked Lek "did you watch with him"? she said "yes!" she thought he joking so she watch when the movie start than she know he is not joking, so she told him to enjoy hisself than she walk away from him.

Lek said she don't know why her boss did like this. She stay with them for 2 year never see him do this.

Sincerely,

Peuan Noi

Dear Noi,

There are a couple of things going on here, one of which you may not like to consider. It doesn't surprise me that her boss tried to get her to watch a film. Many men have fantasies about sleeping with a virgin, and her boss may be no different. Obviously, he feels that waiting two years is enough time, and he's making his move now. As "poo yai," her boss knows he can make virtually any request, and Lek will have to show The Good Manner by doing her best to make him happy. If she hadn't walked out, her virginity would no longer be intact, something that is very important to her, as it relates to potential marriage prospects.

If man-boss' wife had walked in while the film was rolling, my guess is Lek's employment would be terminated the next day.

If Khun Lek is 27 years old, though, I doubt whether she's naïve enough to think that agreeing to watch even the beginning of a prornographic movie wouldn't lead to "bigger things." How can you be sure that the story is as portrayed? Perhaps Lek had decided that status as mia noi (minor wife) if preferable to being unmarried? If this is the case, she may not want to tell you directly, but instead, will lead up to it in a series of increasingly interesting stories.

If Lek's story is true, though, the boss has crossed the line, and will do so again while his wife is sleeping the sleep of the just. As a friend, you'd want to ask her if she'd like your assistance in finding a new job in a house without home theatre.

Marayat dee!

Pa Farang